You mean like this?
Timberlands.jpg
(not the one in the middle, lol)
This image is from the website, "GirlFashionStyleNet". Note the word "girl" in the title, and not "boy".
These women are not dressing like men, they dress like casual women. Where did you get the idea that only men can wear pants and work boots?
Back to your main point, many before you here have posted that they thought they'd stop CDing once married, or later on they thought they CDed because their wives weren't "feminine" enough. If you stick around long enough, you'll see that the desire to CD is independent of that. CDers crossdress when they're single, married, when they're young, old, when their kids are growing up, after they're gone, when they're in relationships with feminine men, masculine men, feminine women and masculine women. The desire to do this comes from within you because you've derived positive reinforcement from it in the past, and it really has nothing to do with your other circumstances. The proof: there are a great many men who are not crossdressers, but who are also married to women who do not prioritize girly fashions.