I was sitting at a group meeting listening to others talk and realized how much I do not fit in. I can't really put my finger on it but it is an odd feeling that is very familiar to me. I haven't fit in anywhere my whole life and yet as I thought I would finally fit in to a group I find myself very much so not fitting in. To be honest it sucks to feel like the odd duck. I wonder if it is cause I am not full time or if I am just in a different place in my life. I just can't bring myself to pretend to sit around and hate on my "former life" as they call it. It drives me crazy because I feel like I am putting on a show when I am in male mode and now I feel as I am putting on a show while in female mode. Talk about confusing but this crap does suck. Hormones have balanced me out some what but now I am in limbo.
For those that have transitioned to full time did you feel like you didn't belong at times or that you were faking it? Many people say it just "feels" right and I have had those moments but now I am having more of a "this isn't the place for me" feelings. I can relate to topics, I can understand what people have been through, and I find myself jealous of those that are full time or passable. I wonder if this is just a big WTF moment. I have had small ones and thought that those just went with the territory but this is pretty big. It just sucks to have the old feelings of being the odd duck out again as I thought I was past that point in my life.
The say the more you know the less you understand... that's for damn sure.