i do say i want to be equally respected as BOTH.., JENN/JEFF i am so MAINSTREAM NOW... sometimes i do get offended when im called SIR, PRESENTING AS FEMALE..., guys don't acknowledge when im JENN and this is what i want...., AND TO most guys.., IT DOESN'T HAVE AN AFFECT ON... FEMALES, THEY LOVE IT regardless if im into males or females and im glad males pay no attention but i don't want to loose a BEST MALE FRIEND nor not visit my family BECAUSE IM THE OTHER HALF....WHICH IS JENN..