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    Adventuress Kate Simmons's Avatar
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    Womanly or girly?

    When you are dressed en femme do you feel like a mature woman or more like a young girl? I kind of feel somewhere in the middle like a mature Tom Boy. Due to the liberating atmosphere I guess. What about everyone else. What do you feel like when dressed?
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    I'm very decidedly more like grown up woman. Thats how I see myself and how I want other people to see me.
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    The reflection in the mirror says womanly, but the rare occasion that calls for a LBD and heels feels otherwise. Kim

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    As much as I would like to look and feel "girly", at my age, that is unrealistic. Just like a genetic woman of my age, the skin and features are no longer right. I would hope to appear several years younger than my actual age but that's no different than what genetic women hope.

    If I dress "girly", I look in the mirror and marvel at how silly I look. It took me a while to understand that it's how the clothes look on me that's important, not how they look on the rack or a store dummy.

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    Hi Kate, I guess it's more the mature (Mid 50ish woman) look at my age(72).
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    Mental attitude - mid 20's to mid 30's. Visual appearance and typical clothing choices when Dressed - mid 30's to mid 40's. Actual age - mid 50's.

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    i may look like a mature women on the outside, but dam im still girly on the inside lol hugs peace love lynda

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    Usually, a women of my age minus 10 or 15 years. But I often do dress a little young if I going someplace where blending isn't super important, like a salon.

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    I'd have to say that I feel more girly than womanly.

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    Regardless how I present, there is a disconnect between how old I think I am, and my actual age. As a guy, thinking I'm 20 years younger than my actual age gets me into some difficult situations where the body simply can't do those things I remember doing so easily. As a woman, I look pretty silly trying to present as though I am in my mid-40s.

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    More girly than womanly, perhaps feeling half my age. From great distances, I might even look much younger.
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    Yes, I don't feel my age which is why I feel more girly and sexy. I do try when with a man friend though to try and be womanly but do end up girly too.

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    I've always thought and carried myself as a mature woman.

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    Womanly - i am not niave any more

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    Womanly 'cause I'm realistic and maybe 'cause I lost my illusion - eventhough I still have illusions, I ain't lost everything.

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    Depends on my mood. I love being girly but can also be womanly.

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    Womanly with an occasional girly moment.
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    Unfortunately at my age it should probably be "matronly", so I am quite happy with being a mature woman!
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    I'd Love to present as a Girly Girl I don't feel ready to step into Womanhood just yet.

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    More the mature woman but still not quite...lol.
    I still have the 30's attitude to go with my appearance which is a little older.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    Just an old broad here. Any girly thoughts or feelings are euphoric so I can't feel that way all the time!
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    More womanly. I kinda dig conservative look, granny chic, cardies, embroidery, etc.
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    Pretty much dressed age appropriate, I'm 33 and dress in what a female version of me would wear.

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    what an interesting question. I don't feel I've landed properly to know yet. Starting as a happily hetero married male, underdressing has given me access to my feminine side, a way of being more careful and gentle in the world.
    The next step of going fully CD is happening now, and I'm not sure yet whether I feel like a man in women's clothing or if I'm emerging into feeling as a girlie-woman. Only now that i've worn the dresses do i get the wigs and the rest of the full CD deal ... so i think i have surprises in store and will await them at my pleasure-leisure.

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    I am a beach girl ... that said i dress more womanly in a Girly way...in my 50's and the beach type of thing a mix works out....there's a fine line in passing as a older girl and getting read as side show.....i dress and enjoy going out just not standing out .....

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