You have to do something for me.

[Hell on Heels]

Hell-o everyone,
So tomorrow night (Friday) will be a huge night. My SO has agreed to go out
with me ( I mean Kristyn of course ) and meet a few friends from the forum
for drinks and dinner in SanFrancisco. This is the very first time she will be
out with me dressed en-femme.
I'm OK with all of that part of it, but when I asked her if she is still
feeling OK about our plans, she said yes, but remember you have to do
something for me.
Now in my mind what she has agreed to is so huge, what could I possibly
do for her to show how much I appreciate her taking this step for me?
Any Ideas?
Much Love,
Kristyn

[paulaprimo]

wow, sounds wonderful and hope all goes well.
i would simply relay those feelings to her.
tell her how happy it makes you.
good luck

[Nikkilovesdresses]

Conditional? Hope she's not going to ask for a BMW.

Have a great time- I would LOVE to go out in SF again, it's been upwards of 25 years.

[Hell on Heels]

As this was her Idea, she has asked a few times if we were going out
with the girls over the past couple of months.
She really has been very supportive, just not fully understanding of the concept of CDing .
So she still has some doubt as to my intentions with it.
With all she is doing to grasp the reality that just exploded in her world, I feel she has the right
to ask for some kind of gratitude.
I would love to buy her that BMW (well maybe not a BMW, I don't own enough metric wrenches)
But like I said the scale of what she has been through and has been willing to accept, in my mind is huge! Its not that it has to be straight across,even stevens, but I would love to express some sort of
gratitude. A card and love note with some flowers won't do.
Any thoughts?
Much Love,
Kristyn

[AngelaYVR]

A million metric wrenches to one that she already has something in mind.

[charlenesomeone]

Kristyn jewelry always works! If you get two of something you can both wear them. That may help with the I love only you.
Hugs

[DonnaT]

A weekend getaway?

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Kristyn. Diamonds are a girls best friend, Please do keep us advised.

[CarlaWestin]

BMW and Diamonds. That was my first thought before I even scrolled down.
Hopefully, you'll be doing all the housework in your new maid's dress.

[Jean 103]

Kristyn, You both have a nice dinner. May I suggest an after dinner drink when you two arrive back home. A slot of Kahlua, slot of Disaronno and half & half or milk over ice. It’s like candy. Love Jean

[mykell]

hi kristyn,

still a little jealous you guys have met and have forum friends....

soo this is what i did, last year after my reveal.....i had her engagement ring....it was broken...i took it to be repaired but instead i upgraded it with a nicer setting and more stones....on valentines i kneeled down and asked her to renew our vows on our 25th anniversary.....

[Danitgirl1]

Why not ask her what she would like?
Radical thought warning!

[Katey888]

I would have thought that's easy enough - in response to her "You have to do something for me.."

"OK - I'll do anything within my power - simply tell me what it is..."

That is a huge step you're making... I hope it goes well for you both...

Katey x

[Krisi]

It's great she agreed to go out with you and even greater that she suggested it. You could ask what she wants or try to figure out what she would like. A new car sounds fine if you can afford it and need a new car anyway. It's all family money and you'll be driving it sometimes.

[Stephanie_CD_64]

Hi Kristyn. You are so lucky to have a wife willing to go out with you.

I'm leaning in with what a few of the others have already said....she already has something in mind for you to do for her.

[Amy Fakley]

Wow, congratulations, Kristyn! That is such a huge step, you must let us know how it went afterward!

I've not really been out with my wife (or anyone else) yet, but I also find myself in that situation. My wife has been so ... not just accepting, but encouraging, and understanding and patient. I want to give her something to say thank you (more than just flowers and jewelry and that corny stuff). But damn if I can think of anything (that we could afford) that even comes close to the magnitude of what she's given me over the past few months. I'll be watching this thread for ideas, lol :-).

Hope yall have fun on your GNO!

[Amy Lynn3]

Why not a second honeymoon trip she has always wanted to go on, plus all the diamonds and flowers you can afford. The second honeymoon would show her just how glad you were to have married her, plus romance, all women like. Leave all cding items at home and just be her man on the trip...wait on her hand and foot. Show her she is the queen of your life.

[Jenniferathome]

If it were my wife, it would be clean the house INCLUDING the toilets! No joke. Doing something that you normally don't do is huge. I do not think that going out together is deserving of cars, furs, travel, etc. It is a kindness she is showing, so show her a kindness.


By the way during the night out, don't leave her hanging. Include her in every bit of the conversation. Ask her what she thinks and listen to her. that'll go a long way.

[Hell on Heels]

Yeah, don't need any more vehicles, and the
diamonds were given to her at Christmas.
I like the getaway weekend idea. Hmmmmm.
Care to expand on this idea a little?
Much Love,
Kristyn
BTW I do clean the toilets, but get what you mean

[NikiMichelle]

It could be as simple as to make sure you make her part of the evening and that you don't leave her on the sidelines and feeling abandoned...and if that is not it make sure you that regardless!!!!

[Shelly Preston]

I am sure whatever she wants wont matter.

She is worth it

[Bootsiegalore]

Don't buy a BMW..... I had an '87 635CSI and dumped it after 9700.00 in repairs in 1 year! My Mercedes was cheaper to service!

R

[justmetoo]

Whatever you do for her make sure it's personally meaningful to her and that you put some thought into it. So we can't give you specific answers. It's up to you (possibly with some hints from her?) to figure out what it is that will mean a lot to her.

Best wishes on your night out and on whatever it is you end up doing for her!