To me, I get a return from it in the fact that I am at least not lying to myself about what I am. In todays world, I think just being honest with yourself, is a huge step in the right direction to happiness. I am by no means out about my CDing. It weighs heavily on my mind, for several reasons, and I am sure that I will work through it in my own way, in my own time. I am not really concerned about coming out right now, I know it is coming, and I will deal with it once it gets here. I keep CDing because I enjoy it. The feel of the clothing is still one of the best feelings I have known. After a divorce, loss of loved ones, a teenage daughter who is pregnant, and just RL constantly raising its head and biting me in the buttocks, I get a sense of peace when I dress. To me, it is no different than reading a book, watching a movie, or playing a game. For a bit you can escape, into something/someone else, and maybe thats not a bad thing. I still go to work everyday, pay my bills, and taxes, just like all the "normal" people do. Folks will always persecute what they dont understand, and think in their minds, to be "wrong". I am used to it.
*Hugs*
Kenadie