Sorry if this topic has been posted before, and I will admit I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself today but here goes. I am on the front end of a long dry spell of being able to dress up. Being married with kids it can happen at times and right now I am looking at 2 months of no Rachel - sigh. I try to do little things every day, here and there, to feel femme. I keep my body shaved, I go shopping, pluck my eyebrows, even working out to lose more weight and attempt to have a nice backside, but some days (like today) its not enough. How do you gurls handle times when there's too much drab?