Guess I am not a woman. I don't want a big beefy hairy man. I am attracted to well groomed "professional" looking men. Sports jackets, great smiles, well dressed (even if jeans not baggy or worn). clean shaven face. I disagree that women want the macho type of man. Hardly any of my male friends would have ever been married if that were true. Women like men who are confident and fun. The package is just window dressing
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
Nez Perce
“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
That about describes mine too.Originally Posted by laura.lapinski
Guess I am a lesbian bi-curios CD
He would be a GG. Not interested in men and don't fantasize about em either.
Hiya Sean, long time no see!
To your comment, I must be really weird. I wear high heels when I go out with my SO to try to be as tall as she is, to try to eliminate one of the 'readability' factors. When people on the street see two people walking together who are the same height, the one who is taller does not appear so huge. Anyway, I don't feel the least bit masculine by doing so. And why don't I feel masculine when I do this? Because I'm not a man. lol
Not the women I know. How old are you, Sean. You should get to know more modern women.
Reine
Your opinion is based on a sample of people who claim to be "women" on a fetish site? Let guess, you're not a researcher of any kind...
Absolutely 0 interest in men, there is nothing I find attractive about them at all. If going for a biological male, then I would need an ultra fem full time ts/tv. If feminine enough, i may be flexible on the pre vs post op. But really, I'm all for women
OK, a trans woman is a woman. Pre-op, post-op, non-op - we are women. As for surgery status - having sex with one of us is nothing like having sex with a man because - we aren't men. Yeah, porn shows a bunch of penetrative types of activity going on. In the real world, this doesn't happen for most of us. And a lot of us wouldn't want it even if we could.
But hey, if the defining quality of a woman for you is her vagina, then I guess you don't have a very high opinion of women!
I actually have a real boyfriend but I've never met him in person. I met him on a chat site over 5 years ago and we have developed a very close relationship which shows no signs of waning.
If I only had a fantasy boyfriend he would be just like my guy. He is handsome, fit, athletic, sexy, intelligent, the right age, very loyal and devoted, wonderful to communicate with and most importantly absolutely adores me and makes me feel very desirable and feminine. He adds incredibly to my CDing pleasure and I'm forever grateful I found him.
I made no claim that my opinion was based on scientific research, so congratulations for defeating your own strawman. It's an odd criticism coming from someone that asserts, without any evidence or rationale, that their DNA makes them wear dresses.
Sounds like a perfect boyfriend to me.
amazing how many "I don't like men" people don't read well isn't it? It doesn't ask if you like men, want to sleep with men, dream about men or have in any manner before ever seen a man. It asks in a fantasy world. So here's an idea. If you you don't want a man or fantasize about a man you don't post an answer here. You are just taking up space on the thread.
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
Nez Perce
“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
OK, I'll give it a shot...
I found it really hard to imagine any specifics of a "fantasy" boyfriend beyond boring non-sexy things like being kind, gentle, honest, funny, etc.
But tonight I happened to listen to a CD of someone singing Andrew Lloyd Webber's "Music of the Night" and this singer was amazing... he had a deep, rich voice with amazing dynamic contrast, control and power. I was weak in the knees!
So yeah, a handsome guy with a really strong singing voice would do it for me.
Sorry Lorileah, you don't get to decide; the OP, Rah, didn't restrict comments or answers to a specific demographic.
I'm an open advocate for our Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Trans brothers and sisters to my friends, family and workmates, but I'm straight, and can no more come up with a "fantasy boyfriend" than I can a fantasy girlfriend who'd dress me in a nappy/diaper, put me in a playpen, and feed me with a bottle... it's just not my thing.
Quite frankly threads like this are the reason that when I introduced my girlfriend to the site, I logged-in and took her to the "Loved Ones" forum first, emphasising the supportive and nurturing nature of the site.
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Black is ALWAYS the, "New Black!"
"I really hate it when people accuse me of wearing Womens clothes... these aren't Womens clothes... I f*****g bought them!!!" Eddie Izzard.
Et tu, Jennifer?
Black is ALWAYS the, "New Black!"
"I really hate it when people accuse me of wearing Womens clothes... these aren't Womens clothes... I f*****g bought them!!!" Eddie Izzard.
I definitely want that in a boyfriend. I love tall guys with fabulous bodies!
I'm always a woman!
hi girls, I was not going to post, since I only think about women ,but what to hell here it goes, my man would have to be one of them nikki Newark types,all slick and ready for action,just down and dirty sex lol hugs lynda
It isn't about my opinion of women, the question was what my fantasy boyfriend would be like. As someone not attracted to masculinity, I based my answer on the genetic composition of the person. Would I go for a porn star- absolutely. But thats all for show, so if the individual maintains the role of a man, then I have no interest. If the individual who was born a male assumes the role of a woman in a physical sense and appears to be very feminine in body and manner, then that is what I would be much more attracted to.
This^^^^^^EXACTLY.
Joni
I guess Rah wasn't asking you, was she? Your answer really doesn't add to the conversation.
The OP Rah wasn't asking you, was she?
There's an old adage about "If you can't say anything nice..."
I don't get all these "I'm gonna throw up" and "I'm only into GGs" comments on this. OP asked about a fantasy world, and if you can't place yourself into that setting then why bother commenting at all? The negative "Oh you're cracked in the head" style of comments don't add anything, it just tosses a wet blanket on the conversation. OP wasn't asking "you" specifically, if you can't even conceive of this or it makes you physically ill - why not just keep it to yourself?
Seriously, if you don't have any good to say, why bother commenting at all?
Now y'all done got my dander up. I really don't like negative people.
~Melissa
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~Linebacker Melissa
I would like a guy who is clean shaven, athletic, sensitive, caring and most of all honest. Who would make me feel like a woman treat me well. Be loving and sensual. And yes, I would make love to him as i have done in my mind many times before. Maybe one day I will meet him and the dream will come true, you never know.
My main problem is that I am very choosy and I wouldn't get involved in any way unless I knew he was genuine. I will get my day I feel very sure about that and 'the man' will be very happy with me as i will make him feel like he is the best.
Lucy Lou xxx
If we are to believe the psychologists, no one is completely immune to thoughts of the same sex in some intimate way. I believe this to be true. How do you know you are turned off by something unless you have at least given it some thought in the first place? For example, I can honestly say that I don't believe I want to go to the Caribbean because I have thought about it; I've not been there though.
Having said that, I have thought about other guys but that doesn't float my boat at all so I feel comfortable in agreeing with several others. Women for me... especially the one I'm married to.
Lacy PJs
Just for clarification's sake, it would help if the responders actually understood the question:
"So in a fantasy world..."
Here are a couple of definitions to help us along:
fan·ta·sy
ˈfan(t)əsē/
noun
1.
the faculty or activity of imagining things, especially things that are impossible or improbable.
fan·ta·size
ˈfan(t)əˌsīz/
verb
indulge in daydreaming about something desired.
Rah's question was about "fantasy".
Next answer please...I'm still working on mine.
Jaye
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Satchel was right, something is gaining on me...And God bless the creator of e-cigs!
I'm just not attracted to me on any level, not mentally, emotionally, psychologically, physically, sexually ~ sorry there's just noting that I find attractive about men?
I am attracted to femininity, women, and all that goes with that.
He would be tall, muscular, hairless, and large in every way.
When lost, alone, or blue I know I can always get through the day, for I've always another shade of lipstick to make things right!
With the greatest respect (as I are one too, after all...) but straight guys in dresses being sanctimonious about other straight guys fantasies...???
Katey, exellent point! My thoughts exactly. Men, and I use that term loosely, haha just kidding, take a look at your pretty little femme selves in the mirror before judging another's "straight fantasies"
Robyn you naughty girlHe would be tall, muscular, hairless, and large in every way.
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