Nope this is not the temperature of the oven of a delicious recipe
This hypothetical question is aimed at those who are in a relationship where the SO does know, it is a mute point if your SO is unaware of your TGism.
Both sides of a knowing relationship can answer, that is those who know but are in a DADT relationship and those who embrace the duel personality of being TG.
So the question is...
... You come into the house and your SO drops the bombshell, she has done a 180 degree on how she relates to you being TG, that is,
a. She no longer accepts and wants everything gone
or
b. She accepts 100% and wants to embrace fully this new life you both have.
Please don't respond with "this will never happen", you never know, I would like to know how you would respond if it did happen.