Pink Fog may have a good side if we can look at it from the right perspective. You make your way through an episode of Pink Fog and continue on your way. It's the Pink Quicksand that sucks you in and ruins or completly changes your life that we need to avoid. I'd like to hear some examples of Pink Fog experiences that became close encounters with something worse, but didn't. By sharing stories and techniques it helps gain a little bit more ownership of our crossdressing. That should be something that helps both intellectually and emotionally as we chart these waters.
In my life I had my wife who had veto power over some decisions. Since she passed away almost two years ago I've been trying to discover what my new boundaries are and what I can use to keep things in my life stable. I've found that house slippers with covered toes help since the PF is somewhat insistent that I keep my toenails a very pretty red these days. It may be that ultimate disclosure to others in the family will be the best option, but until that happens I'm looking for other recommendations.
What happened where the Pink Fog put parts of your life at risk? What tips would you offer someone who finds themselves in the middle of a great cloud of pink and needs just a little bit more control to save important relationships? Is it a photo of loved ones taped to the corner of the mirror or maybe an extra step that must be taken before you do something ultimately selfish or in some other way risky?