For me, there are two reasons for loving this little home of ours.
One is the nature of the place and the way its run. It's a safe environment, filled with friendly, helpful kindred souls. That much was obvious from the very first time I stumbled in the door last year, scared and confused, as a brand new crossdresser.
It has taken me all this time to see the second reason, though (talk about thick!). It is this: because of reason one, I can relax here, let my guard down, stop pretending to be a maaaa... a maaa..., oh, what I was before.
Now, I know we all have different reasons for being here, and only a small number of us are at the transexual end of the spectrum, but it doesn't matter. When I'm here, I can be as girlie as I want, the real me is coming out at last, I don't have to pretend when I'm here. As I sit here typing, you can't see how ridiculous I look enfemme, or hear the resonance in my voice, you just know me as birdbrained Natalie, and you are all sweet enough to treat me as a real woman.
Because of this, Natalie has blossomed, I have become something like the person I would have been if I hadn't been born into the wrong body.
So "THANK YOU" everyone, for making an old lady very happy.
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