Honey, all that electrolysis you've had done really ought to count as medical transition, and it would if our medical establishment cared about much of anything but dicks.
I know you won't entirely socially transition, or legally transition, but you are very far along the spectrum, and much closer to me, I suspect, than to some of the others here.
That said, one question I've never seen you address, is your identity. Do you identify as male, female, or have no strong identity, maybe just on the masculine side of the spectrum? (No need to answer - you don't owe me any explanation about who you are, just something to think about.)
Again, I hope I didn't stir the pot too much - far be it from me to label anyone else, and please do know I respect all of you.