Quote Originally Posted by Nikkilovesdresses View Post
It's a one-off high stakes gamble. You're betting the farm.

I'd call it caution or prudence- and there's nothing wrong with either of those.
Couldn't agree more.

Jennifer is totally correct in that your wife has no vested interest in the person at work, but it is one hell of a chance we take in telling. Consider carefully, especially to the point of whether you can accept the worst possible outcome. Sorry to be a harbinger of doom, but as a pessimist, I am only ever pleasantly surprised.

I used Jennifer's letter as a template for my big reveal. If you do go for broke at some point, sincere best wishes from me to you for a happy outcome.

Rebecca