Possibly, I've been waiting on my therapist to recommend something but one of the issues is basically the whole five days off a month and that Sometimes I really don't have control about when I get back.
And well, I know I said I lack self confidence earlier in this post but... I do... yet I get tired of being alone so I discovered online dating sites awhile ago and met someone whom worked with the lgbt community as part of their job... but that was back in December and everything on text was going pretty good up until she wanted to meet... which normally is no problem... I like neutral places and moderately nice restraunts but she wanted to meet me as Allison at a coffee shop and I sort of panicked because I wasn't ready so I sort of flaked out and blew her off... And yes I feel like a moron... and a jerk... And regret not doing it then... not only because she was in a position to actually help me but more so because she was a really nice person.
especially more so because she recommended my current therapist... and our messages were long and thought provoking...
The thing is though, to me this is a bit more than just cross dressing, how much more i'm not sure which is why I have sought out help.