Reading and responding to another thread, I thought of this but decided it deserved its own thread.
Let's say your wife or girlfriend doesn't know about your crossdressing. And, let's say a friend or neighbor saw you in the yard or through a window and took you for a woman and then told tour wife or girlfriend that he/she saw a strange woman in your house when she was gone.
Would you rather your wife or girlfriend thought you were cheating on her or admit that it was you crossdressing? Or try to make up another excuse?