Hi there everyone. Pretty new to the forum and have been trawling through the posts. I see a lot of talk about finding a balance in relationships, when going out, underdressing, andro-dressing etc etc.
But it got me to wondering about the emotional balance that people have and exactly how they view their alter ego.
I will explain what I mean. When I am in guy mode, I will refer to Abi as a third person "Abi would love that" or "She just got some new shoes". But when presenting, I will refer to my male side in the third person.
Now some people might consider that to be somewhat schizophrenic in approach, treating the two sides of my personality as individuals in their own right. And that is not at all how I actually feel it to be. I am both sides, aspects of one inevitably creep into the behaviour of the other. I consider myself to be one person, but that one person has two distinctly different facets. But it seems so natural when in one mode to talk about the other as a separate person. (It also helps when talking to people who don't know about my dressing as Abi can become a "friend" character instead of having to go into details)
The strange thing is.. when I'm in hybrid mode (i.e. round at a mates house with a nice dress and all my jewellery on, but no hair or makeup etc), then I rarely refer to either side, instead referring to everything from the perspective of "me" both sides together in harmony.
Just wondering if anyone else has experienced similar, or indeed whether you find one side to be more dominant and feel it is your "real" side whereas the other is a minor aspect of you etc..