A couple of weeks ago I confided with a good female friend in my painting group about seeing a counsellor, I didn't say why but she asked if it was another woman ? I replied in a manner of speaking it was and left it at that.
Today she asked if things were OK and I said that my sessions had finished but had been back to my GP as some the issues hadn't been covered . She said she didn't mind talking with me if that helped and I said that could she help if I turned up in a skirt and makeup !
She looked at me and said why not, I don't mind, just do it ! I was so surprised, as if it was an everyday occurrence ! I replied that as much as I'd love to I didn't want to risk offending anyone but then added that I could compromise and finish my self portraits at one of the meetings ! She thought that was great ! I also added that I'd come to accept it and that the family all knew and were OK about it, after she started saying poor you and the poor family.
She is a kind, caring person but inclined to talk openly so I may have outed myself to the group, maybe I will be finishing my portraits after all !