Interesting question. You specifically asked what type of women do we like as partners. I have a very attractive, energetic, wife that is smart and outgoing. We are active and share similar interests. She does not dress overly feminine, certainly not manly. She matches her colours and waredrobe very well. I must have mental stimulation, not just physical, and I find the female friends we have are of a similar personality. I wouldn't want it any other way.
On the other hand, if you ask the type of women I look at that get my heart racing, it would be very feminine. Either young sexy outfits or very feminine "ensembles", not formal wear or evening wear,but dressy casual. That is the style I like.
Hope this makes sense.
Morgan