I spent the last two days 'en femme' down in New Hope, Pa. Everybody said it was a super-accepting community and they were absolutely right.
last night I sat in the restaurant/bar at the Ramada having a drink and an app (before cell phones that's what we used to call appetizers). A late middle aged woman walked by my table and kind of nodded and said hello. I smiled and said hello back to her. She took another step or two, then turned to me and said "Linda, isn't it?" I wasn't sure what to think, but I said, ""No, I'm afraid not." "Oh, I'm sorry," she said, "I have a friend who looks just like you. I thought you were her." I took that as a sign of blending pretty well.
I guess her friend must not be a good looking woman.