So I was doing house work and dishes in the sink yesterday; basically getting ready for some friends to come over for dinner last night. My wife comes up from behind me and pinches my butt and leans in to my ear and states "bet you would like to be wearing your outfit for this". I know I blushed, instead of lying and saying "No" or any other response; I kept my hands in the in the bubbles, pretended to be in heels, arched my back a bit, and stuck out my butt. I got a slap on the butt and she called me a "****".
this is normal play, so I shot back: "only for you."
Internally I sighed: I haven't dressed at all in some 6 months, close to a year the last time she knew about. thing are getting better; we only have a few more years of our two boys living at home, then I thing we will be relocating to port angeles, WA. we have been talking about it for years now, it's where she grew up; but now I find out about the esprit conference, and i'm like wow, when are we moving?
all joking aside; my wife may joke about dressing a bit, but I can see it troubles her, not as much as it did at first. I haven't dressed because of lack of time when I have the whole house to myself for more then an hour. If she caught me, I know she would tease me about it a bit, but for the next few days she would be emotionally distant, and I don't like that; so I wait for time on my own.
We still talk about it quite a bit, but I don't push.
A few weeks ago we were remodeling, so some forced spring cleaning was also happening and we were both giving to goodwill tons of clothes we don't wear everyday. for me it was mostly t-shirts and some ratty jeans, but she was tossing so much delicates. one was a brand new bra worn once, asked her about it and she told me it didn't fit her right and, did I want it? Oh god yes, was running through my head, but I knew it wouldn't fit me either (she's a 34DDD, I'm 38). The fact she asked me if I wanted it showed promise, so I'm going to keep doing what i'm doing.
If anyone's attending the conference, could you post your experience and maybe some pics of the events? it would be nice for those of us who can't go.