Didn't want to hijack Paula's thread so started this one. I live full time at my second home, and had a contractor in to remodel the bath. He was recommended by a dear friend, who showed up with him. She had not seen me, but the contractor must have told her. It went fine, then they left. She called within 10 minutes, asked if I was " going all the way" I told her don't know, to,which she said, I will be there for you no matter what. Brought a tear to me to know a causal friend is so accepting and sweet.