I went to the bar last night, loud band, Too loud. Different crowd, a couple of people I know. Larry the tile layer is there with his best friend and best friend’s girlfriend who is form OC, like south of LA. This is what this post is about. They are playing pool and I’m sitting at that end of the bar because it is the far as I can get away from the band, I’m not the only one that said they were too loud. Anyway after the band shuts down let’s call her Ms. OC comes over and says hi, we talk about how I know Larry and things, again nothing new. Now she asks if she can ask me some questions, I know she has questions about T-girls, I tell her she can ask me anything I will not be offended. Well we are talking and then it comes out. She has a son that has been dressing from a young age and has just graduated high school. This is what she really wanted to talk about. She loves and supports him but is a little confused. I told her that all she has to do is love him and talk to him. He is in counseling. She asked if I would talk to him, I told her I would. I don’t think I need to tell the kid anything, but if I can get a feel for where he is at I may be able to help Ms. OC understand him. He is with his dad somewhere in the OC and that is where he is going to attend college. He will be up here in a week or so. I gave her my phone number at told her they can call me any time. Of course right in the middle of this I started crying, not for me but for them. I know I’m out there I should expect this stuff, I just didn’t. I find women talk to me about their problems as I’m one of the girls. This is different. I’m suppose to go to the beach with them today. I will call her in a bit. I realized I only have a bikini to wear, I didn’t bring any of my one piece swimsuits. I wear bikinis to the beach I just keep my distance. There are pics of me in a bikini on this site.
Love Jean