I invite you to take a break from all the "transgender" definition discussions of late, and describe where you're at with regards to gender expression, using one or two sentences.
RULE: You CANNOT use the words "transsexual", "transgender", or "crossdresser" (or any other "defining" terms like transvestite, drag-queen, etc). So basically, talk about what you do: how you choose to present in your day-to-day-lives and how you identify (male, female, both, in-between, no gender, or don't know).
I'll start: I'm a birth-female who identifies as female and who presents as a female at all times, even though I don't often wear skirts or makeup (I'm no longer working in the temp job I had, so it's jeans, a top, and comfy shoes). I have no desire for others to see me as a male and have no desire to alter my physical sexual characteristics.