for years I shunned any help, thinking I just could get by or stop it, but you realize with age getting help is the best.I found a women who GBLT and understanding of the life here between dallas and fort worth that is unbelievable. The wife and I both life her and it is more conversation and discussion than therapy. Finding the right person is whole key right? Am I the only one who things therapy and talking about it is the answer? making sure you can be comfortable as you? I even shared pictures. Your thoughts? Btw if your in the dew area you have to use her...PM me Ill send you her name