This is sorta' to my wife. Do you really think that this crossdressing thing is like an unnecessary malignancy on my persona? I look at your life and the pursuits that turn into just laborious tasks that have to be ground out and I just don't see the ROI (return on investment) factor. At least, not compared to my gendering. And, you want me to conform to that? Damn! Just let me dress up for the occasion and I'll just be totally onboard. I just want to be comfortable but, not in your societal religio filter. We all just want to travel life in the channels of less turbulence.
Honey, I'm just a crossdresser. Just be my friend. You're already my wife and I've validated that I'm a quality provider.
Just let me live, already.