As I mentioned in a previous post, my wife made a line that was not to be crossed, which included no lipstick nor nail polish. For nine years dressing while at home was fine,(wig, bra, etc.) except for that line. Every few months I would hear "I don't know why you want to dress in women's clothes". That hurt. I decided to print out "Why Men Crossdress" and give it to her the next time she made that comment. After waiting a couple of weeks, I lost my patience and read it to her. I think she really understood. The next morning my lips were red and just got a smile. Later that week, had red toe nails. She thought I had done such a nice job, she asked me to do hers in the same color. If only she had understood years ago. I know, now, I am not thought of as a senile old man that likes to wear dresses. Life is good!!
Hope this will help those that were in my shoes.