I'm glad you feel we should fight every Trans battle that comes our way. Are you out at work? If not, why not? Just the fact we are out 24/7. We are ambassadors that do much more than any part time cross dresser. You can't understand because you identify as male, you're okay identifying as Trans. You continually parse posts and take quotes out of context to respond. My comment to Paula in response to the event and her boyfriend's response. He wanted to let it go, so she should abide by bus wishes. Paula is way more activist than I am and I respect her decision to do so. It causes her to be identified as Trans and she has commented it causes some distress, but she is OK with that. I need to be treated as Cis and I have a long road in front. Telling all I encounter in Trans as if I'm fighting some kind of battle will retard that process. Once someone knows you are Trans the relationship changes. If you weren't misgendered before disclosure, you will most certainly be misgendered after.
