I just pm'ed a sister who was so kind to extend a invitation to a GNO in Knoxville. In responding to her & explaining my situation, the dominant thought that constantly envelopes me is how fortunate my fellow sisters are to have understanding wives... at any level of tolerance. Being a spouse to a cd is something they never bargained for at the altar or later in the marriage. I have the greatest respect & envy of those gg's who can continue in the marriage knowing that their husband is a cd. Those of you with tolerant wives need to bask in your blessings.
Regretfully, my wife remains adamant that she will not stay married to a man-girl. The reality of a divorce after decades of marriage , children, great memories, asset accumulation , etc., scares the hell out of this 60 year old worn cd veteran. That is life & the consequences I accepted by making the reveal. Therefore, for the foreseeable future, I live vicariously through you with the never ending hope that a change is in my destiny. Please, please do not take this thread as a lament. Read this thread &, if you are in a tolerant ( or better ) reality with your spouse, take pause to reflect upon your blessings. With that said, I wish you all much peace. Forever a cd, mel