This is semi-inspired by a few other posts I've read recently but its also a topic I've been thinking about quite a bit lately. I'm content to remain in the closet for the most part. My girlfriend knows and that's all that really matters. I have a friend that I wouldn't mind telling but haven't yet. Other than that, if someone ever asked me directly I would answer truthfully but I don't feel a need to make it public knowledge to the rest of the people I know. As far as family goes, it probably wouldn't go over so well with my girlfriend's family and would be a mixed bag of reactions in my family.
So to get to the point of my post, with the growing media coverage and the possibility that transgender topics have more of a chance to come up in conversation naturally. How do the closeted among us respond/participate in the conversation without making others wonder why we know so much about the topic? With my friend I've told him that I have a friend who is a crossdresser (so cliche! I know...) and that I've talked to several crossdressers online (The truth! You all are great!) and he's never given any indication that he suspects I might be a crossdresser but I can see how some might wonder.
Also, while I might be safe and content in my closet, I think of those that are out of their closets and need as many people as possible sharing their knowledge when the conversation does come up.
There is definitely no one answer to any of this. I'm mainly just looking for any and all feedback and thoughts from those that are in their closets and those that are out.