Thanks for the suggestions SFwarbonnet, although I was not really seeking help for the frustration of not being out in public or a full dresser. My thoughts on this thread are more about what it is that drives the desires. I do find a chicken or the egg type of discussion interesting, as in is/are there triggers to our feminine side/femininity from our environment, or physical sensations we get from doing things or wearing clothing that are primarily designed for women?
At least on this site, a large majority of the CDers also have secondary interests besides just clothing which are feminine based. Things we like to do, the way we behave or react to certain things...