Beth, I'm a CD MTF well only in thought. When I'm male, boots are my top priority, With anything I wear. Also shorts are not to be seen on men out there. LOL. Jeans , T-shirt. or suit I have a boot for. I find that in my girly clothes I do have boots there also. Boots are very male. Here in Texas, cowboy boots are top. I also recommend taking your time with your son. After life gets better then find your mate. It is easy to find a submissive female. Heck when I was at a club I would go after those girls only to find they had a butch that took her away from me. LOL Yet any of those girls I thought that I could have. So there is a lot of submissive girls that wants a boy like you. Take your time finding one.