I have a question for everyone
Would any of you considering dating a mtf\ftm crossdresser, a man, a woman, or a mtf\ftm transgender and why?
I have a question for everyone
Would any of you considering dating a mtf\ftm crossdresser, a man, a woman, or a mtf\ftm transgender and why?
My entire life I have dated only women and I feel I have been repressed sexually my entire
life. I am beginning to accept who I am, and,
I really would like to experiment sexually, as my self. At this point, I believe I
am open to dating men, women, ftm, mtf or somewhere in between.
One advantage to dating an ftm or mtf is that I would not have to explain myself,
they would already understand (maybe not completely because each of us is different)
but they would understand a lot.
Although your current visions might be grounded in reality,
there are no shortcuts to get from here to there.
Face the facts and realize that you still may have to manifest this
dream the old-fashioned way: by creating a concrete plan,
putting in the hard work and maintaining an
unwavering determination to make it happen.
It is possible that I would date an mtf. That is if we were compatible. I think it may be easier than dating a gg because we would have more in common or at least they could understand the struggle that transgender people go through.
Erica
I am open to dating a crossdresser or transgender myself i feel that they are more understanding ppl
I would as I'm always interested in getting to know the person regardless of how they present, orhow old they are.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
I am married, thus the question is not pertinent to me, but if I were single, I would only date ladies.
Reading the Gradus ad Parnassum from Johann Fux
Been in a relationship with another crossdresser for almost 12 years.
How did that turned out
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If I were ever single again I would highly consider dating a man. I would not be opposed to dating anyone , but I think that is the type of relationship that most interests me now.
Before I met my wife i did consider a same sex relationship, but nothing came of it. It wasn't from lack of trying, but more from a lack of quality guys in the dating pool. I really couldn't meet anyone who wanted to go on several dates and make a connection. It was all about hookups. I did meet one guy I really liked and went out with a couple times, but I met my wife at the same time and it was an instant physical and emotional connection. I really haven't looked back.
I don't think so. What I do know, is that the thought of having sex with a male is repulsive to me. Just the scent of other guys in the locker rooms is enough to make me nauseaus. Women just smell different in general. . So for me, the answer to the thread's main question is, no. I'd have no problem with being friends at all. But the attraction isn't there.
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Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
I would say men are jerks i dont know why
I have dated a cd for a few years......and I kinda am again now....its more like a FWB situation at the moment and its awesome sauce !! My advice to you Tiff is you need to get your butt out there.....some of YOUR friends are MY friends.....you need to get out & hang ....I understand you are a bit younger, you are around Nikki's age...which means your here today, gone tomorrow, still trying to figure things out, everyone goes through that myself included...but I predict soon you will be hanging and when you do, you will learn , grow, and meet people alot faster.....I'm sure I will see you soon and I am looking forward to it xoxo
If I were single, I'd be open to any relationship where my partner presented as, or was, a woman.
Men don't typically float my boat in any way. For me personally, having male genitalia wouldn't be a deal breaker, as long as she fit my other criteria for attraction.
i'm also married, and would never intentionally hurt my wife on purpose. I do love her very much, but I have thought about this. If the opportunity ever arose and I had a chance to go on a date with another female (whether she is gg, or mtf, and me dressed as a female, then I would. As for as sex, I wouldn't do anything sexual, due to the fact that I don't want to hurt my wife. But I don't see anything wrong with going out with another female.
"Be who you are, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise"
"If you're not transgender, you don't understand, so STFU"
I'm a MtF transsexual, and all of my life I've only had an interest in dating women. I'm not through with all of my surgeries yet, but that hasn't changed. I actually tried to picture myself dating a guy and I'm just not attracted to them at all. On a relationship level they're right up there with iguanas.
I would be fine dating a MtF transsexual, but not a crossdresser. I'm interested in a long term relationship or no relationship, and to me, even though they may crossdress a lot they're still guys.
If I had any idea that therapy, hair removal, hair transplants, doctors and medications were so expensive I would have planned to be rich first.
I am married. If my marriage were to fail, especially due to CDing, I can't ever see myself seriously dating again. This will pretty much be it for me one way or another. personally, trying to think of how I feel now, if I was younger and single, I really cannot imagine myself being involved with anyone other than a GG. In between marriages, when I was feeling some strong desires to dress, but wasn't ready to admit to myself about being TG, What little I did look up and read and just think about, thinking that if I was to go through with my desires on any kind of a real level, that I would end up like the porn crap I saw. It was repulsive to me. I just could not picture myself in any of that type of a situation, personally. Unfortunately, that likely held me back from admitting to myself about being TG. Also, not having seen or been on any forum like this one, my basic mindset was what women would ever want to date me?
Although I am as open minded as any on here, I am very much live and let live, I cannot imagine myself being in any way drawn or attracted to anyone other than a GG. Other CDers.... I would just know once the clothes came off.... so it just would be a no go for me.
Chickens should be allowed to cross the road without having their motives questioned
i love gg's this is why i never transitioned,for their is nothing in the world that can replace the sensualness of skin to skin contact in making love..i sometime joke that im both a mtf and a ftm crossdresser for in a way im both since i already have small breasts which ive always had,and get to enjoy both worlds..my wife knows all about me and tries to except me as a person..
Oh trust me hunny i am getting my behind outOriginally Posted by Adriana Moretti
word is this is false BUT ;;;;;;
try to come out sept 19th......Tiffs party should have EVERYONE in the Tri State area at it....
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I am purely heterosexual, and would never consider dating a man whether or not he was a crossdresser. However, I feel that I would be open to being with someone who had transitioned from male to female, and had had full gender reassignment surgery. But even that would depend on the individual and how feminine they were when they presented themselves. I have an attraction for women who are very feminine in their appearance and their mannerisms. But ultimately, it's all about the person and how attracted I am to her, because of other criteria. I have dated extremely feminine women who really had very little else going for them, so it's obviously not just that. There has to be chemistry, regardless of the situation. If I felt an attraction for a mtf trans woman, then I don't think the fact that she was once male would be a stumbling block, if all the conditions were met.
"Taking the time to be in touch with my feminine side"
I would be open to dating a TG person male or female
I've dated both MtF and FtM trans people who are in transition. No issues there. I wouldn't date a CD. Really sorry about that. I am not attracted to either feminine men nor masculine women. There's no reason either sort of person couldn't be a wonderful partner, but I'm just not attracted to people like that. Same with CDs - gender fluidity sort of triggers me. Again, really sorry about that, it's just how it goes for me.
I have only dated Females.
For me if I could dress I would want a Female or a Male. Like Paula, I am not attracted to a feminine man or masculine gal.
Being with a gg is first.
Still enjoying life with him!
Hi Tiffany,
Well I suppose anything is possible if you find the right person . . . at my age sex is not the beat all to end all and sometimes it is about companionship. However, I can say that I it has never crossed my mind and I know in my heart of hearts I am heterosexual and am attracted to genetic women. I have seen some very pretty (down right gorgeous) CDers but in the end they are men (do not identify as women) and I am not attracted to men. When I comes to trans women, I cannot say 100 percent as I would have to take time to get to know the person within to assess compatibility.
Cheers
Isha
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