Compared to some, my experience is quite devoid of drama. It actually makes for a pretty boring story, so I will save you the mundane details. See my earlier posts, if you wish to know them.
As of a couple weeks ago, my dear wife is on board for a disclosure to our family that I am TG in transition. I've set aside the week of August 9 for individual disclosures. My therapist and hers are aware and ready to assist us.
Each of our several children (all adult, most married) and spouse will come at an appointed time, agree not to discuss this with anyone else until the following weekend, and receive the message directly from me. My dear wife will be by my side. We expect some of the children will be receptive, and one or two will need time to get used to the idea.
I want to have helpful reference material available for them. I will appreciate recommendations for those materials.
Best wishes
MsVal