I just read the most amazing book review in the Hebrew press here. The title of the book is "With this Ring." The book is written by a retired 65 year old social worker that has specialized in counseling married couples and is her advice for a quality marriage. One of the major conclusions she comes to is that the quality of the married life is strongly correlated with how "androgynous" the man is! This is an orthodox religious Jewish woman that knows that the term "androgynous" is a very negative term for someone with both male and female sex organs, but she is trying to redeem the term and make it positive. Her point is that as to the degree that the man in a marriage has what are considered traditionally "feminine" personality traits, the quality of the couple's life together improves!
As others have written on this forum, some of us are blessed with very happy and fulfilling marriages precisely because we have a strong feminine aspect to our personalities! I can certainly say this is true for my marriage. I think this might shed some light on the difference between CD and TG and the marriage issues some of us face. It seem to be that those of us who have strong feminine personalities make good marriages, with the need to express it in female clothing being only a part of it.
For me this has been a very confirming article and helps me see how positive my personality really is, as I have struggled with this all my life and have felt guilty about it. Things are really changing, for such a book to come out in my country!