For some time now I've been wanting to start seeing a therapist to get into my gender identity issues and get some professional input as to if I'm gender fluid. Doing so would necessitate letting my wife know what I've been feeling about myself, and I have no problem doing that, but just when I came to that conclusion we decided to let my wife's parents move in with us while they await construction of their new house. I was originally told it would only be about two months, but we've already passed that deadline and now have about 4 to 5 weeks to go. I want to be open with my wife, but I don't want to add tension in a house crowded by extra people, and it would be difficult if the in-laws found out about me since they are strongly conservative in their values. So I wait. Sorry, just had to vent a little. Carry on with your lives citizens.
Bridget