I know this is a constant debate. I know most of us have saintly spouses committed to relationships and ultimate freedom. However, let's get a bit uncomfortable and call some spades some spades.
I'm bisexual, always have been, Jane is too. We are both swingers (agghhhh....the dreaded word!), we accept people for who they are, do not judge, and invite the truly genuine friends and lovers we have met to share our lives and sexuality with us.
To be faintly obscene, that means while we are all together in a hot tub, I may be nuzzling up against a really hot guy's neck and stroking his abs (if we can't be explicit here, please, really?), but likely as not I'll have his junk in my hand while I seduce both him and his wife. Leah will be right in there with all of us. It will probably end in really hot, raunchy love making all the way around by the end of the night, but certainly not always. We take a point of pride in being asked for more.
Is that wrong? Does that make you, whomever is reading, uncomfortable?