What an amazing women, I can't describe to you what a considerate and unselfish person she is. I would have never thought after telling her thirty years ago about the dressing that this traditional Italian women would have gone back to her mother crying that she married a fag, instead she been supportive and shocked me again yesterday. We were going to the Jazz festival and my sister in-law wanted to tag along with us, we were getting changed to go when my wife asked me why I was putting on male underwear and she pointed out to me that besides for work I never wear male underwear. I explained to her the other night we were talking about Bruce's transformation and my sister in-law commented on how wrong it is and she would never except this from her husband, and so on and so on. In the family iam closest to her and if I was going to tell anybody about myself it was going to be her and now I know how she feels about it. My wife gave me this look of disappointment and then asked me if I was kidding, she walked over to my drawer and handed me a bright pink lacy pair of panties and told me she believed I would rather be wearing these. She then asked me if that's all it takes, one little comment and I go hiding under a rock and just give up on something that is a big part of my personality and who I really Iam, and most of all give her the satisfaction, and as much as we would like to keep it a secret if I bend over and she sees my pick panties, well she knows what a great person I am and we will see what kind of person she really is. She then went on with maybe I shouldn't tell this to the community because if it was for me the community probably wouldn't even be around, and even myself reading all the stories here on how everyone here is trying to take strides forward and I just give up. She was right I put on the pink panties and during the day we were sitting on the grass watching bands play and my wife did tell me there were some big clean views of the pink panties and she hoped my sister in-law got a good view of them. What a great women I believe it's not about the dressing I believe it more about she wants to see her family happy and doesn't care what anybody else says. She always says" the most important thing in life for her is her four walls that all that matters. Had to share sorry went alittle long, and I believe I probably did disappoint some of us here.