Sex Addicts Anonymous. Twenty men were in the group, one homosexual male and one cross dressing male (me) attended. I spoke at the end of the hour and came out. It was not what I was expecting, meeting held at a LGBT church and almost everyone a heterosexual male. I felt I had to be honest about myself, so came out with my lifetime interest of CDing, in support of the CDing but critical of acting out too much. I was surprised by the overwhelmingly positive reaction and support of being a cross dresser. As I look ahead and try to keep my arousal under control, I figure the best way to do that is to just desensitized myself by getting out more and not by suppress ing it or denying it as that would only make me more anxious and more angry. So anyways, as I recover from a nasty sunburn this week, I go from here.