Tonight my wife and I had a discussion about my desire to live as the real me...as Jeri. We have been married for almost 19 years. I have battled my gender issue all of our marriage. I have been on hormones 2 different times and gave them up for her.
Over the past 6 months it has been stronger and stronger that I have to transition. I'm back in counseling and I had come to the conclusion that if I transition then our marriage would be over. We'll tonight she told me she would no longer stand in my way and that I needed to find a new job (I'm in a conservative job that will fire me on the spot for divorce let alone even consider a transgendered person). She stated as soon as I find a job that we would file for divorce and she would no longer stand in the way of my happiness.
Tonight has been bittersweet because I can finally move forward but it's cost me my marriage and family.
So, I have been searching online for jobs in Atlanta, GA and cities in Tennessee.
Full time will come sooner than I expected.