Looking for support group for my SO

[AmberN]

So my SO is very understanding of my CD. She lets me do it whenever I wish. This also spills over into the bedroom. This has been building up for some time now. The problem she is starting to have is she feels like she's turning into a lesbian. I have tried to find a support group for her. The problem with that is they are all hate groups. This is a big problem she has questions about it. She's not against it shes just needing someone that has been able to make this work. Not somewhere that only gives the worst of the worst that can happen. So if someone knows of a group like this will you please help.

[kimdl93]

That's the dilemma isn it. So many so called support groups are hate filled reactionaries. My advice would be for her to talk with a therapist if your budget and insurance will allow. She isn't turning into anything but she may need to hear that from a dispassionate third party.

[Suzie Petersen]

She could also become a member here, and join the FAB (Female At Birth) forum. I'm sure some there might be able to offer some advise.

[Paula_Femme]

Hello Amber

As Suzie says, please encourage your SO to join, F.A.B. forum.

The F.A.B. forum is actually the reason I joined, I felt it would be a great resource for my girlfriend.

She's amazingly open, supportive and accepting, but I'm her first 'dresser, and I thought at some point she's going to want/need to talk to other Women in similar relationships.

Good luck to you both!
Paula

[Sometimes Steffi]

I know several couples where "his" driver's license says "F", and they're very much in love.

Meg (a CD) just got married to a very accepting CD supporter. Meg wore the wedding dress at their wedding.

Normally, I would not reveal a secret like this, except it's not a secret. It's all documented on her blog, which is public.

http://youcancallmemeg.blogspot.com/

If that doesn't help, I may be able to connect you with one of the other couples that I know.

And of course there are some books you and your wife could read:

http://www.amazon.com/My-Husband-Bet...SN4D441H72FGVG

http://www.amazon.com/My-Husband-Wea...+husband+betty

http://www.amazon.com/Shes-Not-Man-M...+husband+betty

http://www.amazon.com/Shes-Not-There...in+two+genders