im not going to hijack the thread marriage is over,so going to start a new one...
so here is my reply to those that got hateful with me for what i posted..first thing yall do not know me since im still a fairly new member,i have tried to be upfront about me,and my experiences so yall can get to know me..i know i have a bad habit of stomping on toes for my bluntness,but thats me i say it how i see it..let me inform the uneducated not all ts's transition period,i have dealt with gender issues before they started to come out with those fancy labels..i was a firstclass drunk and hard drug addict by the time i was 17,i was wasted the last 3 yrs of high school,i went into the army at the age of 20 to try to conform being male,was sent home 3 mo later due to a disability. i eventually landed in fl. living with my best friend,we stayed wasted for 6 mo. i grew tired of being wasted so was fixing to find my own place,then angie (my wife of 27 yrs.)called and asked if she can come visit,i told her some of what i was going through and she didnt care. angie woke me up to what i wanted,the things i couldnt have if i went through with transitioning,the main thing kids,companionship with a woman that loves me for me...i still deal with g.d. but i face my problems head on,never had my use for therapy got betrayed in my younger yrs on that one,just like dentists dont trust them....
the thing i dont understand is if you have g.d. so bad so to want to transition why get married and have kids knowing full well what that outcome is going to be like..i know some stay married just to have companionship but seperate rms and seperate lives,but those are rare for most wives its divorce and destroying you and alienating you from your kids. my wife tells me that its because ts's try to man up and show the world how macho or productive you are in a mans world..me i never cared for that crap,i worked alot of jobs that was gender neutral for i never really got the grasp of the mans world thing..people who know me think im kinda strange for i dont fit in,i walk my own path...so to the ones who say you have to transition to be ts i say your full of it,some cant for healrh reasons,you going to say they arent trans enough...go look at my pics they sure do not fit the mold of man in a dress,ive always been mistaken for female,so i got stupid and started dry shaving took 4 yrs to grow a mustache,beard grows in patches and is like steel wool..i never had man boobs but breasts,i could transition without all the money spending b.s. and do it cheap,all i have to do is stay shaved which is every 2-3 days,heck i have a step sis who grows better facial hair then me...i know who i am,some of you still dont know who you are...
cheryl reeves