Good day everyone,
Before I begin, I'd like to share some context with you.
I consider myself gender fluid. My gender identity shifts over time and often without warning. I was born a male, and have lived most of my life as a male, though in recent years I've come to embrace my feminine side more.
Lately my identity shifts have been more "strong". More pronounced. Normally I feel like I'm somewhere in between one side or the other or I feel a bit of both. Not so much lately. There are days where I'm okay, proud even if being a guy, and there are days where I fervently wish I was female. I don't think transitioning is a solution for me, because then I'd be a woman who some days feels like he is a man rather than a man who some days feels she is a woman.
That said, I've been thinking about what it means to be male or female. What is it like to be a guy? What is it like to be a girl? What do those questions even mean? What I'd like to ask of you all, as people who have transitioned or are transitioning and even those who are considering transtioning, what your perspectives on this are.
I'm looking for ideas and food for thought, mainly. So let's open up the discussion.
What does being a man or being a woman really mean?