I tend to be active on social media, both in boy and girl mode. I'm fascinated by how much more interactions I receive as Stefani than I do in my male life. A lot of it has to do with men hitting on me because to them I'm not a person but rather as some fetishtic thing." It's annoying, but I put it into perspective, and try to be positive that anyone has noticed me, unless they go too far with it. I've had men send me pictures of their junk. I doubt I'm the only one that has happened to. It was amusing at first, but the more I think about it, the angrier I get.
Recently, I was asked out by a guy from another town who wanted to meet me. I was flattered to be sure, but I'm skeptical of his motivation. I don't know him and I'm not inclined to meet someone I don't know. I'm not interested in men, or maybe I should say I haven't been interested in men, though now I'm curious as to what it would be like to date. The fear though is that they are interested solely in sex, and that's not were I am. For now I'm refusing all advances, most especially from strangers who talk to me online.