Ok.
Windy has gotten an earful, and I think members have expressed their concerns with how this post may look to spouses that are concerned about CDing, cheating and the whole "is he gay" issue. At this point Windy will make her choices and is probably more aware of the consequences of her actions than before. I doubt that any more piling on is going to benefit Windy, and may even have a less beneficial effect.
There were some good questions raised here, but I feel that any further discussion here is flogging a dead horse. Hopefully, with Windy's concurrence, the moderators will close this thread. Any lingering questions probably deserve their own thread.