Last night my wife was driving us through downtown Portland on our way to the comedy club. The comedy club is in a rougher part of town. While sitting at a stop light I observed 6 young women at the corner, nicely dressed, taking selfies, and looked they were going to have a fun evening. I said, “Well there’s trouble in the making,” in a nice way, my perspective. Earlier in the drive, I also noticed a small group of young men, four or five, hanging out on another corner in low rider jeans smoking. I made the observation that they were there, possible trouble, but made no comment.
When we were getting close to the club, my wife said there are way too many homeless here. After circling a couple of times, she found a parking space four or five blocks from the club. My wife walks faster than I do especially if I am in heels, which I wasn’t for the walk to the club. As we were walking to the club, she kept changing which side of the street we were walking on. After the show on the walk back, she did the same thing changing sides of the street. She finally said that she was trying to avoid walking on the same side of the street where we would have to pass a guy either coming towards us or just standing on the sidewalk. I noticed these guys as well, low threat assessment, my perspective. She must have had a much higher threat assessment. These guys did not look homeless to me.
Either on the walk to or walk back, she made some remark about it being a male privilege to just walk without having to think about it, her perspective. I was aware of our surroundings and did not perceive it as much of a threat. When I lived in San Francisco, I would walk amongst the homeless in both male and female dress both during the day and at night. I only avoided those with obvious mental disorders, those talking to themselves or screaming at the world in general. I never really had a problem with the homeless in San Francisco, my perspective.
These are just some of my observations and thoughts from last night. You all be safe when out and about, especially if you have your wife or SO with you. The comedy show was very funny. We are going again next Saturday, possibly my brother and his wife will join us. They could not last night.