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    Obsessed with a natural desire

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    An obsession that feels natural.

    I'm still new so maybe the obsession will wane in time but I don't think that the woman that I see in the mirror will ever return to the depths of repression. Nor do I want her to.
    "You will always be fond of me. I represent to you all the sins you never had the courage to commit."
    Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

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    Neanderthal in nylons Julie Denier's Avatar
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    It's really a little bit of everything ...

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    Silver Member CynthiaD's Avatar
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    Normal.

    I dress to look and feel normal.

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    I could pick a few of your words, but will go with my own: comfort.
    I fell much more comfortable in a skirt than trousers.

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    I would say mine is Desire. To be happy with myself as male or female.
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    The natural NEED, to the TRUE ME!!!

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    Discovering the Gurl Xandra's Avatar
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    It is me.

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    Irrational.

    It is an "unnecessary" load in my life, but also an irrational and irresistible pleasure.

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    My wife is afraid that I have an obsession for what she calls my hobby, although I don't agree. I do understand her, because of how my brain naturaly works I have a habit that i want to dress because I feel the need to give into my desire to feel femme. And I am afraid that if my secret comes out people i know would call it perversion.
    do not label me for i am unique

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    Its my inner need to become sexy and feminine.

    Anna

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    The urge to be feel sexy and for a little while pretend to be what I've desired/objectified my whole life. I'm normally a fairly reserved and shy guy, but when I'm Stephany, I feel empowered in a totally different way then I can as a guy. I have a friend who was a female runway model and described a very similar experience modeling, "Normally I'm afraid to put myself out there, but when I have my makeup done, dressed up, and put my model face on, I feel like a different person who is afraid of nothing"

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    Synchronize.
    I dress to synchronize my external self with my internal. They're not women's clothes. They're not men's clothes. They're MY clothes. And I dress however I feel.

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    JoannKelly Josie's Avatar
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    An overwhelming desire for peace and tranquility.

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    Obsession or compulsion or both.

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    Natural. Comfortable. Relaxing.

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    When truly and tastefully en femne, liberated - your essence untethered,,unleashed

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    Happily Married CD !! Ina Girdle's Avatar
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    Fulfillment!!
    Just a run-of-the-mill underdressing CD

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    I don't think it can be put into a single word any more than the reason you love your wife can be put into a single word. I also don't think anyone here has a logical explanation of why they want to strap on a pair of boobs and pretend they are a woman.

    I often use the term "hobby" when talking about crossdressing but it's really much more than that. If we were looking for a hobby, we would take up more socially acceptable hobbies like golf or fishing. Some of us have lost wives and families over our crossdressing so maybe it's a compulsion. Maybe it's a mental illness. Who knows?

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    ........ ylem

    Last edited by Krististeph; 10-07-2015 at 08:29 AM.

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    Need before I am dressed. Peace when I am dressed. Satisfaction after (for a time until need arises again).

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    Ecstasy.

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    I don't think one word can sum up the attraction of cross dressing. For me it is a deep NEED that fills a gap in who I am and fills me with calmness and satisfaction.

    It is never a hobby and NOT a perversion.

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    For me, it is more sexually based.....so sexual

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    I'm with Rachel05.... the word is ME !
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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