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    Junior Member Luciana's Avatar
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    Trying to guess if someone is a crossdresser...

    Did you already catch yourself looking at a stranger man and wondering if he would be a crossdresser?

    I have done it a lot lately when I go outside and see dudes in bank row, post office, walking on the street, etc... I really have some fun imagining the more improbable ones being a lady just like I am!


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    yes, its like buying a new car and then noticing all the other ones of the same type, whereas before you did not notice.

    I reckon we're far less noticed/visible to the normals than we think, because we are sensitised to clocking CD signals, most people are not.
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    Yeah I do especially for the guys that can have the long hair and wear it a little on the girlish side. I say Hmmmm are you one of the gang??

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    I think we need a special crossdresser handshake.
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    And do you wish you were one of them girly boys that could dress and pass?

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    Generally I don't try to watch for the may be CDers. I will only do so if something catches my attention, like waxed or tweezed eyebrows, long nails, shaved legs or other body areas. Not a definite, but a high probability.
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    Not really unless I happen to see him en femme at the club.
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    Never gien it much thought to be honest. They"re such a straight cut lot in the dockyard. Some times I think I work in a Dickens novel.

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    Looking at men dressed as men and wondering if they are crossdressers? Nope, it never occurred to me. I may occasionally see what appears to be a woman and wonder if she is a male crossdresser, but that's pretty rare where I live. They are either really good at it or they stay home and out of sight.

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    never looked at a stranger and wondered...but i have seen signs ( i have them too) eyebrows are a bit too neat, no facial hair etc

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    Teri: That's a great idea!!!! NOW, you have to invent it (that handshake)!!!!!

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    only in the most general way. like at an event I'll sometimes think, "if two percent of men are crossdressers, there must be at least a couple others here"

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    I sometimes pick up on subtle hints that there's more to the people around me than I think, but I haven't ever wondered if a person is a crossdresser. I've found myself wondering about peoples gender identity or sexuality, but not whether or not they're a crossdresser.

    However, in my experience, I find a lot of my friends and acquaintances don't fit into a cisgender or strictly heterosexual mold. I'm not sure if that's by coincidence or if I'm naturally drawn to such people.

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    I find I do lately!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teri Ray View Post
    I think we need a special crossdresser handshake.
    Problem is, none of us wants to be recognized!

    We're the most secret secret society, one in which we don't even acknowledge each other!
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    So true Eryn, sooo true!

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    I took a walk through philly down town area and tried to guess. I could not tell not to good at this. now i am thinking what was i really doing down there. i am trying to get honest with myself. still a lot of self denial.

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    I once encountered a guy with a full beard wearing a bridesmaid dress. I'm pretty sure he was a crossdresser. But other than that, I really have no idea.

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    Hi Luciana, When I'm in Home Depot I look at all of the other macho guys like myself
    and just wonder how many are under dressing Crossdressers .
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    Crossdresser official handshake

    OK Gals, we do need an official handshake. How about this?

    Fold your pinky (little) finger and ring finger in and make it a gentle girly handshake. To be used only when you are certain the other person is a CDer.

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    I so rarely get to dress up these days I often see the man in the mirror and wonder if he really is a Crossdresser

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