My thread "Do I dress for her or not" gave me whole raft of advice which I took on board and as it happened all is well and will continue to be so.
But the biggest thing was to say to you all a "A VERY BIG THANK YOU" for all your kind words of advice and warnings of not doing the wrong thing. I am greatly heartened and proud to be amongst you all in a way that I can and like others seek advice, help and support.
In life I have learnt that good advice and help should be heeded to the full.
So thank you all, I am ecstatic at how things turned out for me, hugs to you all