So recently, my wife said she can no longer be married to me if I crossdress. This comes after I caught her trying to have relations with our daughter's best friend's dad, also after months of her lying about her marijuana use. We've been in counseling, and things are better. ..for her. She's made her amends regarding the infidelity, and I think she's going through early menopause which explains some of the erratic behavior. I at this point don't want to stop dressing, but I also don't want to lose my family for crossdressing. She's embarrassed me, and described me as a novelty regarding our early relationship and her desire to be with me prior to marriage. She also told one of her friends about my dressing and the associated fetishes that surround it with me. She's now said she may be OK with occasional pantyhose or leggings (my favorites). I just cannot see ever wanting to do this in front of her again. I suspect she said no crossdressing just to hurt me, but now I feel disgusted and betrayed on so many levels! What kills me is I was really coming to terms with who I was as a man, a crossdresser and a husband. Help!