I don't get much time to dress even though I'm self employed and working from home. Taking deliveries, having visitors etc means it doesn't happen. This year I've probably dressed about 7 or 8 times. I'm not out to my wife and so everything is hidden away. Well today I got a few hours to dress and as I'm writing this I've just yet again packed everything away. I've got some stunning dresses, underwear and shoes and I'm always gutted when it needs to be packed away again. In fact I've spent probably double on girly stuff than I have on drab stuff this year. Oh how I wish everything was more open in the world and more accepted. Why should women be the only people to be able to dress just as they wish